by Chinwuba Iyizoba
A Bulgarian heavyweight boxer abruptly grabbed a female reporter, Jennifer Ravalo, on live television and kissed her on the lips. Jennifer, who works for the Vegas Sports Daily, was interviewing the still-bleeding and shirtless boxer Kubrat Pulev, Pulev had just knocked out Bogdan Dinu in a Las Vegas fight, his 27th victory in 28 professional fights, according to gaurdian.uk
A shirtless boxer forcibly kisses a sultry female journalist. Both of them need counseling in virtue.
She was all smiles, leaning in way too close, cleavage clearly visible, as she smiled to the camera and right in his face. His drawled responses were getting more and more distracted, and he lost self-control, abruptly grabbed and forcibly kissed her on the lips, and walked away.
“Thank you, Jesus Christ!” Jennifer exclaimed, embarrassed. This seemingly abrupt and strange action may not be entirely inexplicable. A boxer brimming with adrenaline and near a sweet female with some flesh on display may just grab her. It is called original sin, sin as old as mankind; it led to the fall of the first man and woman, according to Christian scriptures, and occasioned the banishment of man’s first ancestors from paradise.
It’s clear that simply being a good person requires some kind of self-restraint. If a man gives in to his anger, he’ll be impossible to live with and may even end up a murderer. Furthermore, if a person doesn’t know how to deny his excessive desire for alcohol, he’ll become a drunkard, a child who does not curtail his desire to watch television or play computer games will fall behind in his schoolwork; a boxer who does not want to control his desires will grab female reporters on live television and kiss them on the lips.
Virtues are what we use to control ourselves.
What are the virtues? Virtues are habits that help us act according to the right reason and move us toward what is truly good. Virtue comes from the Latin vir: life. Virtue is a state of character and excellence that makes a person do good. They are realized and grown by constant practice. There are four virtues, called cardinals, on which the whole moral life hinges. They are prudence, temperance, justice, and fortitude. Each of these four virtues has bullet points.
The Catholic Church describes these four cardinal virtues as “human” (in contrast to the theological virtues of faith, hope, and love, which are of divine origin). The cardinal virtues are habits that, when practiced and cultivated, allow us the ability to make the right choices.
Prudence
Prudence is the virtue that disposes practical reason to discern our true good in every circumstance and to choose the right means of achieving it; “the prudent man looks where he is going.”… It guides the other virtues by setting rule and measure. It is prudence that immediately guides the judgment of conscience. If boxer Pulev practiced prudence, he would know that forcibly kissing a woman could land him in big trouble and possible lawsuits in this age of #MeToo. Again, one of the bullet points under the virtues of temperance is modesty. Perhaps, if Jennifer kept a modest distance from the boxer and showed less cleavage, she would have helped him maintain control. This is not to say that she is responsible for what happened.
Justice
Justice is the moral virtue that consists in the constant and firm will to give their due to God and neighbor … Justice toward men disposes one to respect the rights of each and to establish in human relationships the harmony that promotes equity with regard to persons and to the common good.
Fortitude
Fortitude is the moral virtue that ensures firmness in difficulties and constancy in the pursuit of the good. It strengthens the resolve to resist temptations and to overcome obstacles in the moral life. The virtue of fortitude enables one to conquer fear, even fear of death, and to face trials and persecutions. Pulev might have resisted the Jennifer’s alluring lips, perhaps looking away, this resolved could be strengthened by thinking about his wife and children, not wanting to embarrass them.
Temperance
Temperance is the moral virtue that moderates the attraction of pleasures and provides balance in the use of created goods. It ensures the will’s mastery over instincts and keeps desires within the limits of what is honorable … In the New Testament it is called “moderation” or “sobriety.” We ought “to live sober, upright, and godly lives in this world.”
It’s clear that these qualities are essential for everyone, today as they were yesterday, if not more…and for celebrities, much more.
Chinwuba Iyizoba is the editor of Authors-choice
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