My Advice to Every Married Woman to avoid Divorcing her Husband by Joyce Meyer

17 03 2017


1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other’s keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret

them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband’s right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It’s very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand on starvation for too long (even the anointed

11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.
14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.
21). Don’t be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a good husband and her home, she will be grooming irresponsible daughters without manners.
29) A woman who cannot manage her children, home and  husband is a complete failure in life no matter her achievements.
30) A wise woman honors her husband, and respect him, in turn the husband will cherish her and love her dearly – it will be natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God, no woman can stay without a husband. No good man on earth can tolerate a confrontational and argumentative wife except they have lost their value and become less of a real man.
31). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
32). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
33). A prayerful wife is very wise and intelligent and she  is a  better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family. Conquer all your challenges and problems with prayers, only God can solve our problems – not parent, not pastors, not imams or alfas, not anybody but, only you and God.
Send it to every woman you know. You never know whose marriage you are about to save. And to every man so that the women in their lives can be better guided.




7 responses

11 02 2020

God richly bless you Woman of God for this is a bless to me and my ministry

14 07 2019
Andrea Quatell

I was looking for having to leave a severely disabled, cognitively impaired spouse so he would have to be placed in a home. I was his caregiver for 5 years due to multiple disabilities. Our house smelled like a nursing home. I barely got any help because the agencies expected me to do everything including driving my husband 150 miles away for his dialysis. I lost my job because I could not concentrate (I was a child protection social worker). He had absolutely no income because I apparently made too much money (2000 over the poverty mark). When he finally got the help he needed I had no privacy because nurses were coming in consistently as it became clear he was too much for me to take care of, yet he refused to go into a home which left me responsible for his welfare. Towards the end he screamed and yelled at me continously because I had no money for cigarettes. Finally I snapped. I have my own invisible disabilities, bi-polar disorder, complex ptsd and anxiety. I had a Frank discussion with my husband as did his Drs, social workers and his extended family (who pretty much ignored him up until now) that I was no longer equipped to care for him. That I still wanted our marriage but we would have to live in separate places in order for his needs to be met. Since he refused to leave the house, I did. As my entire savings was decimated trying to support him, I had 1009 to my name, so i bought a RV and am living in it. My husband refuses to talk to me. I believe one of his family members could be supporting him to ignore me as the family member changed the locks on my home 2 days after i had left, and is now telling everyone that my husband will be changing the will to leave everything to this brother. The humerous thing is, there isn’t anything. There is a car as an asset and all of my art work.

I don’t care about the “things” really. But I do care that I have had no closure, if that’s what this is, with my husband. At least there’s no more screaming and yelling, but being shunned/stonewalled like this has left me continously anxious and very depressed. I cry a lot. I see my psychiatrist and counselor a lot. I don’t know what else I could have done.

Even now I’m not at peace. I feel used and exploited. I don’t know what to do

14 07 2019

For better, for worse, till death do us part. You know why you are not at peace. To love is to suffer and our life only makes sense when we live for others.

3 03 2020

Wow, sorry to see you are so unhappy yourself. Ever heard the saying “God help them who help themselves? PS, I am very happy now. Absolutely no regrets.

27 01 2019
Brenda Henderson

What about when you use giving 100% to the marriage and you’ve loved your husband been faithful uplifting encouraging thank you and you find out that he says I’m not in love with you I’m not attracted to you and he’s been cheating on you for 9 months with somebody 25 when we’re almost 60

27 01 2019

Thanks for writing in Brenda Henderson. Sad but true. It is like a sucker punch to the stomach and many strong women have crumbled. I know one woman who took that punch and remained standing, tall and every thing turned out to be ok.,perhaps she might teach you a trick or two : here is the story

12 10 2018

i dont think its from joyce meyer”Dont joke with food” Nigerian English.Its written by an african

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